I have been thinking a lot about what it means to start a small business. Do you feel familiar with the moment when you stand at the edge of the pool and look into the water? Some people are uncertain and may try cautiously at first. Are there any more people? They are very committed and ready to plunge into the new completely. Many of us are surprised by how cold the water is when we jump in.

Let’s tell the truth. I thought positively when I decided to start my own business. Bright lights and exciting days full of passion and creativity! Is this really true? Sometimes it was difficult to find money for bills, even as a self-employed person.

Before you jump in the water, you don’t know what the day will bring. Every day has new difficulties. It feels like you wake up every day on a difficult obstacle course that is unfairly designed. Sometimes you work on advertising plans, then you struggle with complicated accounting software that is difficult to understand.

We want to briefly discuss some of the ideas I wrote down at the beginning.

Learning is more difficult than I thought. It’s like climbing a very high mountain. One day you’re talking about search engine optimization, the next you’re talking about difficult customer service issues that confuse you.

It’s important to manage your time well. I thought I had enough time because I’m self-employed. Laughing. There may be more distractions when you work from home than you think.

Networking is a bit like speed dating. You attend events to make contacts. However, it often ends with awkward conversations in which people don’t understand what you do or even think they know, even though they’re wrong.

Sometimes we feel great, other days we doubt our decisions, even if they were good at the beginning. It’s sorta like aroller coaster of emotion.

Don’t worry, it’s not all sad and hopeless! Feels like it at times. But no. Sometimes something exciting happens: you feel inspired when things go well or a customer is really happy with your work. Cold showers aren’t so bad when you feel great afterwards.

Every jump feels different, depending on the situation and your attitude. Do you jump without help or with the help of others? Have you saved money or do you trust that everything will be fine? Various things affect how well you swim when you are underwater.

When we are on this adventure together, it’s okay not to be prepared all the time. It can also be positive. Sometimes you find opportunities unexpectedly when you are active and take risks, rather than staying passive.

Regarding preparation or lack thereof, I have a personal confession to make: I didn’t know how to make a budget. In the beginning, I tried a lot and made mistakes. I searched through spreadsheets aimlessly until I found my own way. This was an important experience that I learned during many late nights. I looked at numbers that made me sad.

And finally, have you ever started or considered starting your own small business? What was it like for you? Was it like jumping off the board or rather gently pushing off from the side?

Let’s share our experiences with each other! Together we can learn from each other as we plunge into the cold waters ahead of us. Sometimes the journey is daunting.