Why My Blog is So Informal

So, let’s get real for a second. How real? Real, real. You might have noticed (you didn’t say anything becuase you were being polite) but my site isn’t exactly the most polished piece of professional writing you’ve ever seen. And guess what? That’s on purpose. By design. Just the way it is. I mean, why stuff your brain with endless jargon and fluff (I hate that, you might too) when you could be getting the straight talk about small business? There are enough books out there filled to the brim with theory and “how-tos” (all good stuff to know by the way) that often dance around the actual realities of running a business (again, I hate that). Instead, I’m here to slice through all that nonsense.

I’m a practical person.

That’s how I am.

You know those moments when you try to find advice online and feel like you’re wading through a jungle of terms and theories, and lest we forget sales pitches (I don’t sale anything by the way)? Ugh! I’ve been there too, and it’s frustrating as all get-out! I decided early on that my blog would document not just the triumphs but also the pitfalls—real-life stuff I’ve faced while trying to make my business work. And believe me, there have been plenty of mistakes along the way. Some comically big blunders that came when I wasn’t paying attention. But instead of sugarcoating it or presenting it in some overly formal structure (because I am not a teacher), I just laid it all out there (I like to share, I’m a sharer). Like messy hair on a bad day—unfiltered, raw, and totally real.

Take it from someone who’s been knee-deep in this journey: if you want to succeed in small business, you’ve got to learn from others’ errors as much as their successes. Take my word for it, learning from somebody elseses error is better than making it yourself. My goal here is simple: share what needs saying without making you sift through layers of fluff (that’s garbage with only one goal). We’re talking practical advice—things like “Don’t spend too much on fancy logos when you haven’t even figured out your customer base,” (oh, that’s a good one!) or “Be prepared for cash flow issues; they will hit at the worst times.” (So true!) Those are nuggets every budding entrepreneur should hear. And hear often.

And here’s another thing: being informal doesn’t mean lacking substance, people get them mixed up. It means being approachable and relatable. When I write about my experiences—like how I accidentally mixed up my tax forms last year (oh, I didn’t write about that, that’s sort of embarrassing actually)—it resonates with others because it’s human (and dumb on my part)! It’s not always pretty; sometimes it involves late nights filled with coffee-fueled panic and Googling terms that seem more like riddles than answers (then the answers finally make sense). But we’re in this together!

For those who wonder (and those who don’t) why I don’t include more statistics or studies … well, let me ask you this: when was the last time data made someone feel better about their excruciatingly challenging month? I has happened, because, stats can back up claims (and they’re important, look at the Trump/Vance baseless claims), but let’s not forget what really matters—the emotional rollercoaster we ride as entrepreneurs! Business is business. By sharing unfiltered thoughts alongside practical advice (usually), we can build a community based on real experiences rather than theoretical ideals. Theory? Sure, it’s great, don’t get me wrong, but as much of what we do comes from applied knowledge and understanding of our market. Numbers on a page can back that up.

Oh—and speaking of those stats—I do occasionally sprinkle in some resources for good measure (they’re like those jimmies on donuts)! Links to articles or guides can be found throughout my posts because while anecdotes are great (and they are) for illustration, solid information is critical too. It’s all about balance really—keeping things light while still offering something useful at the end of your scroll.

So where does this leave us? Glad I asked it.

If you’re going into small business mode—or if you’re already knee-deep—you’ll appreciate an honest take on what works (and what doesn’t). No sugar-coating here; just genuine reflections from someone who’s walking (or stumbling) down that path alongside you.

In closing this super long post today—if you’re looking for perfection or professional polish elsewhere, well… good luck (I really mean that)! But if you want to connect over shared struggles and victories (even if they come wrapped in informality), then stick around! Together we’ll navigate these entrepreneurial waters without drowning in all that excess fluff. Let’s do this thing right—together—and keep it real while we’re at it!

Sounds like fun, count me in, and I hope to see you again soon!

It Goes Like This … Ahhhh!

Starting a business? Yeah, I am so excited for you! And now a word: Buckle up (that’s actually two words)! Still, no matter what you might think it’s an exhilarating ride. Exciting? Sure, but amidst the excitement, things can—and often do—slip through the cracks (or you just forget where you placed them). Trust me, I get it. That’s how this whole thing works. Nobody, and I mean nobody, is the perfect entrepreneur (that’s French for “business starter”, don’t take my word for it, look it up) You’re busy juggling tasks, from creating a stunning logo to figuring out your marketing strategies. But let’s pause for a second and dive into what you might be overlooking.

But first off, organization is key. A pile of notes doesn’t count. Seriously, consider investing in a simple project management tool (Trello or Asana come to mind, haven’t tried either, but have been told they are good). This will help you keep track of your tasks and deadlines. When your head is spinning with ideas and responsibilities, it’s easy to lose sight of what needs doing today versus next week!

Alright, organized, check, next up … don’t forget about finances. It sounds dull, I know because it is. But hey, budgeting isn’t just numbers; it’s your lifeline! Keep an eye on cash flow—expenses can pile up faster than you think when you’re caught up in the whirlwind of launching.

And then there’s the legal stuff. Yawn, right? But skipping this can lead to some real headaches down the road (hello fines!). Research permits and regulations applicable to your business type and location.

Got all that? Then, remember to take care of yourself. Yeah, it’s easy to drown in work when starting out but burning out won’t do you—or your business—any favors. Actually it will just leave you with a pile of bills which will make you more burnt out and it is sorta this endless cycle. So grab that coffee break or even better—a short walk! You can combine it with picking up coffee so it’s like this win-win.

In short? When you set out to start your dream business, stay organized, watch your finances closely, cover your legal bases and prioritize self-care. It really isn’t that easy, but it can be. Because, after all, it is easy enough to overlook when you’re busy building that dream (which might become a nightmare)!

Laughing Through the Trials and Errors

You know, starting a small business is a lot like trying to cook soufflé for the first time. You whip up your batter with all the enthusiasm in the world, only to find that you forgot an ingredient—or worse, you miscalculated the oven temperature and ended up creating what can only be described as a pancake. Trust me; I speak from experience here.

Let me take you back to my first foray into entrepreneurship. Picture this: excited me, bright-eyed and bushy-tailed (okay, lacking the hairy tail), ready to conquer the world with my handmade candles (I was turning 16 at the time). Why candles? Well, why not? They’re cute, they smell good, and everyone loves a flickering flame on a cozy evening. It seemed foolproof—at least until I discovered that not every wick is created equal.

On my very first attempt at pouring wax into molds, I was all about precision. In my mind’s eye, I was an artisan crafting exquisite pieces worthy of Instagram fame. Instead? I ended up creating what looked like melted crayon blobs tossed haphazardly onto a tablecloth (and don’t even get me started on the colors, a kid eating said crayons and then vomitting them up would have made better colors). Spoiler alert: no one wants to buy “Firework Fiasco” candles.

But here’s where life—and business—gets interesting. Instead of sulking over my candle catastrophe (though I did consider it for about five minutes), I decided to learn from it! And by learn, I mean frantically googling “how to make candles without looking like an art supply explosion.” P.S. Don’t google that. Thank goodness for YouTube tutorials; they were my saving grace. Sorta. What did people do before YT?

Fast forward to a few weeks later when I felt confident enough to try again—this time armed with knowledge and slightly more realistic expectations. Guess what? My second batch turned out beautifully! Well… almost beautifully (maybe you should read better). The smell was divine (albeit overpowering); however, they didn’t exactly look like something you’d want sitting on your coffee table next to your favorite mug—with their tops resembling something akin to crusty pancake batter instead of smooth candle wax. Hey! Don’t laugh!

If there’s anything I’ve learned on this rollercoaster ride of entrepreneurship (besides how NOT to make pancakes), it’s that mistakes are part of the process. Like bad hairstyles in middle school or disastrous first dates—they happen—THAT’S LIFE! What matters is how you bounce back from them, or don’t and then you’re a failure. Hey, don’t look at me like that. It’s the truth. Or as it was in my case, how many times you have your friends come over for “quality control” testing while pretending that each new batch is definitely the one. Hum, maybe that’s why it took so long now that I am thinking about it. So much for brutal honesty.

Sure enough—I made mistakes again! And again! Each time teaching me something new until finally—after countless trial-and-error evenings spent hunched over pans of melting wax much to my mother’s chagrin—I created a line of candles that people actually bought (which weren’t family members (thanks grandma))! Cue triumphant music!

Now here’s where it gets really interesting (or perhaps mildly embarrassing, though I would argue it was already pretty embarasing): just when I thought things couldn’t go wrong anymore… enter stage left: shipping disasters. One day after sending out orders filled with love and care—cue dramatic music—I received multiple emails from customers claiming their packages arrived looking as though they’d been through some sort of wrestling match with a bear, that was when Bearestling™ was born!

Imagine receiving a parcel that smells heavenly but looks like someone stomped on it ten times before throwing it at your doorstep! Then again once more when it was there for good measure. But again, instead of losing faith in humanity or giving up entirely (both tempting ideas), we had another learning opportunity on our hands! And not one on how to promote Bearestling™.

So there we were brainstorming ways to improve packaging—a bit more cushioning here and there—and experimenting with various materials until we finally found the right balance between eco-awareness (I was their before Greta, but I attended school) and durability because I peanutted the hell out of the boxes (who knew packing peanuts could be so controversial?).

What’s the moral here besides don’t wrestle with bears? Life—and running a business—is just one big experiment filled with hilarious hiccups along the way. It might seem daunting at times (most times)—but those moments (become fewest and fewer) when things go awry often lead us toward growth if we let them! Oh, and packing peanuts, even if you really don’t want them.

Embrace those little mess-ups because they are merely stepping stones toward success (at least that is what you’ll tell yourself even in retrospect you feel otherwise about them)—or at least toward making better candles next time around (especially when your friends say these are the one)! So grab your metaphorical whisk (or actual craft-making supplies) and get back in there—you never know what beautiful messes await you! Thanks mom! She always cleaned them up for me.

And hey, if nothing else—at least you’ll have some funny stories along the way… or maybe even an idea for your next small business venture: “Candle Catastrophes – A Collection!” Who could resist? Actually everyone, I tried and it didn’t work.

Small Business Printing Notes

I recently posted a “commitment” that I made to myself about my small business plans, and since then I have put a little more thought into the process and direction I wanted to go in. One direction that I was interesting that was seriously thinking about is small business printing. And you’ll that most of what I wrote about was in this direction, but also generally useful information.

So today I wanted to take a moment and collect a couple of the notes together that I had made on the topic.

They focus primarily on printing, and personalized business services.

Business Guide

I linked to the business guide from the SBA, which if you are thinking about setting up your own printing pipeline you will want to pay close attention to the document and guidelines. Still even if you plan on having somebody else do the printing you might find the guides useful.

Here are a couple of points that you can take away from the guide.

Here are a couple of things you’ll most likely be interested in if you are looking into printing. The SBA linked to some of the considerations on the EPA’s website but the link was broken and I couldn’t find the linked page.

Links to Web sites containing regulatory and reinvention information about the printing industry, including lithographic printing, gravure printing, flexographic printing, and screen printing.

You’ll notice that small home businesses will be looking into several of these areas.

For example women who design and sell their wedding and other invitations on Etsy. Or people operating a silk screen printing business out of their garage.

Also if you want to sell prints of your art work you might be dependent on the lithographic printing.

Other options:

  • Outsource the printing to a local printer.
    This is something that I have thought about, and I have even gone and talked to several printers. Their attitude was from disinterested to professional. But they all had several problems which turned me away. Most of them were also too expensive for my budget.
  • Home printing.
    This is the route most of us will think about first. But there is one small problem. There is a lot of initial investment that need to be taken into account. There are also the regulations that we have just looked at.
  • Outsource the printing to a 3rd party POD service.
    This is another option, which is also affordable. One site, CafePress, has a breakdown of what their service entails. Still, I fail to see this route as the best solution. The upfront cost is lower (zero in most cases) but they also offer small returns. I understand that they are covering the costs of printing, allowing you to profit from their infrastructure but it might still be more affordable long term. It would really be beneficial to look at the numbers.

No matter my choice the target platform for now will be something like Etsy’s market place which seems perfect for the small business.

These are definitely not the only options but they have been the ones that have been going through my head. Right now I still need to sleep on which one, if any of them are right at all, and then make my choice once things have settled in. I estimate that I will make decision by the New Year, but it will be a process that should be thought through before I jump and start my own business.

References

  • SBA.Gov Special consideration for print publishing.

So I made the commitment today

I’ve been thinking about my current job and the time I invest into it, and of course what I get out. And instead of talking around the subject I might as well just say that I have been putting some thought into starting a small crafty style of business to use as additional income, or replace the current one.

I put my ideas together in a small business page to try and put a concrete set of notes down. I would be pleased if you would look them over and give me some feedback on it.

My main motivation is for some additional money, but this doesn’t necessarily fit with my available time. Which with everything I’ve read means “no, don’t do it.”

This is another reason why I put it together, maybe somebody else will be able to use the resources I’ve collected together even if I can’t.

Happy Thanksgiving

I know it is a little late, and that is due to my in ability to get the site up on time. It was on the schedule since Friday, and while that wasn’t so far off from the mark I just now found time to write something up. And a delayed greeting is better than one that remains predominately absent. Besides, most of you that will be reading this, family + friends, have already been wished a “Happy Thanksgiving.”

So you’ve found the site, congratulations, and you’re reading this 😀 so thank you. Until next time!